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SANTA MONICA, CA – JANUARY 11: Jim Toth and actor Reese Witherspoon attend The 23rd Annual Critics’ Choice Awards at Barker Hangar on January 11, 2018 in Santa Monica, California. (Photo by Christopher Polk/Getty Images for The Critics’ Choice Awards )

In heartfelt message on March 25, Reese Witherspoon, 47, announced she and her husband of 12 years Jim Toth, 52, will be divorcing. The announcement came two days before the couple were to celebrate their 12th wedding anniversary.

“We have some personal news to share. It is with a great deal of care and consideration that we have made the difficult decision to divorce,” Witherspoon wrote.

“We have enjoyed so many wonderful years together and are moving forward with deep love, kindness, and mutual respect for everything we have created together. These matters are never easy and are extremely personal. We truly appreciate everyone’s respect for our family’s privacy at this time.”

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LOS ANGELES, CALIFORNIA – JANUARY 19: (L-R) Jim Toth and Reese Witherspoon attend the 26th Annual Screen Actors Guild Awards at The Shrine Auditorium on January 19, 2020 in Los Angeles, California. 721336 (Photo by Kevin Mazur/Getty Images for Turner)

Collective gasps were felt across the world. These two people — one a Hollywood talent agent, the other an Oscar-winning actress — seemed to be made for one another. They share a 10-year-old son Tennessee, and Toth also helped co-parent Witherspoon’s two other children, Ava, 23, and Deacon, 19, from her first marriage to actor Ryan Phillipe.

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UNITED STATES – MARCH 24: Reese Witherspoon and former husband, Ryan Phillipe at the Seventy Fourth Annual Academy Awards in Los Angeles, United States on March 24, 2002 – For the first time this year the Oscar show was held in its brand new home, the Kodak Theatre, located in the heart of Hollywood, California. (Photo by David LEFRANC/Gamma-Rapho via Getty Images)

When the news initially broke, a “source” told Page Six “there’s no big scandal or drama, just two people who essentially became co-parents and don’t really have any romantic feelings for each other anymore.”

But since a different source — which, please, take this with a grain of salt — told The U.S. Sun the split was actually the result of Witherspoon and Toth no longer having anything in common post the sale of their Hello Sunshine company, “a real gut check moment for him and Reese,” says the source.

“This process of uncoupling really began in late 2021 when it became clear to everybody who knew both of them that they were itching for life apart from each other,” says the insider. “That money was rocket fuel to them, but it sent them in different directions and pretty quickly after that deal closed, the only real common ground they had was the raising of their son, Tennessee.”

“They now had more money than either of them could ever figure out what to do with, and it was time to reassess,” the source adds.

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HOLLYWOOD, CALIFORNIA – FEBRUARY 23: Reese Witherspoon arrives at the Los Angeles Premiere Of Prime Video’s “Daisy Jones & The Six” at TCL Chinese Theatre on February 23, 2023 in Hollywood, California. (Photo by Steve Granitz/FilmMagic)

But this insider also alludes to Toth’s change in behavior being another reason for the split.

“His personality, his attitude and his whole take on life really changed when he got out of the agency business and decided he was tired of that stuffy world and being in the service business in general.

“Call it a midlife crisis if you want but that’s when the tattoos, the chunky, weird jewelry, and dressing like somebody half his age really took hold,” the source revealed.

Again, this is all speculation. We hope Reese and Jim are OK.