Some people just know how to make us fall in love. They know all the right words to say and they use them to control us.
However much we love our partner, it’s essential to open our eyes to the feelings they have for us. Love is blind, but some signs can help show you that your lover is playing games with you.
Here are 6 signs your partner doesn’t care about you
1. They always find excuses against commitment
If your partner says things like, “I like to take things slow,” or “I want to do it right with you,” … after many months of the relationship, you can stop giving them the benefit of the doubt. The fact that your partner doesn’t want to commit shows that they probably will never be ready to give up their single life for you.
2. They haven’t deleted their dating apps
Even if you generally don’t have to ask what you are to each other, most people delete dating apps when they know they have found the one. If your partner hasn’t, they are still looking for someone better.
3. They don’t introduce you to their friends
If your partner has trouble introducing you to their loved ones, there is a problem. If after a few months you still haven’t met any of their friends, it could be for one of two reasons:
- They don’t see you as a serious partner.
- They worry about what their friends would think of you.
Whatever the answer, move on because you are worth more.
4. They still insist they are single
Believe them if they say you aren’t their partner. Even if you act like a committed couple, it doesn’t mean that you are in an exclusive relationship.
5. They only call you to “have a good time”
Does your partner not give you time unless it’s for drinks or casual sex? The only reason they are contacting you is to play with your feelings for their own personal benefit. They don’t want a serious relationship, only a fling.
6. They are extremely private
Does your partner confide in you? Do they share the most important things in their life? To build a healthy relationship, you must start by being at least a little bit intimate, which includes opening up about your life to the other person.
