Making the right choice is a matter that can also change your life.
Someone in difficulty flips a coin, others seek help from the outside, while others consult the stars.
These are ineffective methods for understanding if it will be the right choice but very effective if you still don’t know what to choose: in fact, while consulting stars and oracles, you will hope for something and that will be the choice you really want to make.
In reality, the only thing to do is to rely on oneself and be convinced of what one feels.
But that’s precisely the point: how to achieve it? How to be certain of what you choose if you don’t know the future?
We give you suggestions to understand if you’ve made the right choice.
How to Understand What the Right Choice Is
Evaluate Your Level of Happiness
You cannot know what will happen to you in the future, so what you can know is what you feel now.
What makes you happy? Where do you find peace?
Making an important choice presupposes many different complex variables that are not easy to quantify and identify.
For this reason, the only sensible thing remains to listen to what you feel.
What makes your heart beat is the right choice, for now.
Balance Head and Heart
Head and heart must be balanced, otherwise, you risk neglecting important aspects.
If it’s true that listening to ourselves leads us to tune in with our deepest needs, evaluating with the head possible consequences or implications will also help us make the best choices for the future.
For example, if you’re dealing with betrayal, it’s good to listen to love or anger towards the partner, but it will also be useful to evaluate whether you can still trust or if it’s possible to mend the relationship.
To Understand if it’s the Right Choice, Imagine Yourself in the Future
How do you see yourself in five years? How do you imagine yourself in light of the choice you’ll have to make?
Your choice today will influence the near future, and so it’s there that your imagination will find certain answers.
It all depends on how you see yourself in a few years, on how you want to feel and see yourself once the moment of uncertainty is over.
If you look a little further ahead, you’ll immediately understand what the best choice is for you.
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This article first appeared on Grazia.it – Elisa Castellano
