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NAUCALPAN DE JUAREZ, MEXICO – MAY 21: Jennifer Lopez poses during the ‘Atlas’ Mexico City Fan Event at Plaza Toreo Parque Central on May 21, 2024 in Naucalpan de Juarez, Mexico. (Photo by Hector Vivas/Getty Images)

Jennifer Lopez has officially closed the book on her short-lived marriage to Ben Affleck, finalising their divorce almost five months after filing. According to court documents obtained by People magazine and USA Today, the break-up has now been made official, marking the tragic end of one of Hollywood’s greatest love stories. But as the two stars have endeavoured to split up their shared assets, there is one bright spot to this sad ending, in that Lopez has managed to keep ownership of her seven-figure engagement ring.

Rumours of cracks in the relationship had been swirling since May 2024, which fits with the separation date Lopez listed on the filing—April 26, 2024—citing “irreconcilable differences.” The singer filed for divorce on August 20, 2024, the anniversary of their wedding—an extravagant ceremony at Affleck’s Georgia estate.

The settlement, as reported by TMZ, suggests an amicable division of assets, including an agreement to sell their AU$109 million Los Angeles mansion. Each will retain funds they acquired individually during the marriage, with neither party obligated to provide spousal support. Lopez also requested her legal name be reverted to Jennifer Lynn Lopez after adopting Affleck’s surname during their marriage.

As speculation about the state of Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck’s relationship runs rampant across social media, one unlikely arbiter has weighed in on the rumours: Jennifer Garner. Indeed, a source reportedly close to Affleck’s ex-wife and mother of his three children, Violet, 18, Fin, 15 and Samuel, 12, confirmed her support for the actor and director, explaining she only “wants the best for” him. "She wants him happy and healthy so he can be the best dad possible," said the insider. Garner didn’t comment on the reputed break up, but the anonymous informant added that the Suddenly 30 star “likes” Lopez for her “healthy lifestyle” and “support” of Affleck’s sobriety. “Jen wants that for Ben,” they continued. Lopez and Affleck reunited in 2021 after ending their long-term relationship and engagement in 2004. The images of the pair kissing on the streets of SoHo were hailed as evidence that love after heartbreak is real. (And undoubtedly served as the catalyst for some of us to reunite with a former flame). The couple were said to be having relationship struggles following the release of Lopez’s panned genre-bending romance musical, This Is Me... Now: A Love Story. Some tabloids had even gone so far as to say divorce was very much in the couple’s future, with Affleck no longer living at their shared Los Angeles residence. Subsequent public appearances didn’t help to quash this line of thought, as the Good Will Hunting star was seen without his wedding band on multiple occasions. Lopez is currently on a press tour for her latest release, a sci-fi Netflix film called Atlas, but is yet to comment on the reports herself. The couple allegedly spent Memorial Day weekend apart. Could it be the case that Hollywood’s greatest reunion story has already closed its latest chapter? It’s too soon to tell. But consider this an entry in the three-part anthology that is ‘Dear Ben’.
NEW YORK, NEW YORK – MARCH 29: Ben Affleck and Jennifer Lopez are seen on March 29, 2024 in New York City. (Photo by Gotham/GC Images)

Much of the divorce remains confidential, but one piece of their history will remain with her: the iconic 8.5-carat green diamond engagement ring valued at AU$8 million. As Page Six reported, the ring, engraved with the words “not.going.anywhere.,” a phrase that Affleck reportedly signed off his emails with when he and Lopez initially rekindled their romance.

Lopez and Affleck’s journey began on the set of the film Gigli in 2001, a union that swiftly ignited a media frenzy of “Bennifer.” They became engaged for the first time in 2002 before calling it off in 2004. When they got back together two decades later, they managed to make it down the aisle.

Now, as the two step into their respective next chapters, sources confirm that they remain on good terms.

“They want to show the kids that things are amicable,” a source told People in September 2024. “There’s still a lot of love.”