“You have a 10-year age difference? Your relationship won’t last.”
“You’ll see, in a few years, you won’t have the same priorities.”
“I don’t believe in your relationship for one second.”
You may have heard these comments before if your significant other is older than you. However, according to Emma Hathorn, a dating expert working for seeking.com, you shouldn’t listen to these stereotypes.
For Hathorn, having an age difference in a relationship can actually be a very good thing. And some of our favorite celebrity couples are living proof: Dua Lipa and Romain Gavras, Heidi Klum and Tom Kaulitz, Virginie Effira and Niels Schneider, Blake Lively and Ryan Reynolds, George and Amal Clooney. All of these “couple goals” are comprised of one person dating someone older!
According to the dating expert, older people have more experience and maturity. “It can lead to better communication, better problem-solving skills and a more stable relationship,” she explains. And in regards to stability, “It can bring a feeling of security and comfort to the relationship.”
We are always learning from our partner
Someone older can also bring us wisdom and advice. They have different views on life and inherently will know some things better than those who are younger.
“They can advise on a lot of different areas of life and comprehend complex and stressful situations. This can be particularly useful and calming in difficult situations,” assures Hathorn.
Don’t forget generation difference plays an essential role in cultural improvement. “Dating an older person can be the chance to learn from each other (music, cinema, etc.). Sometimes, they can teach you how to enjoy life’s beautiful sides, and help you discover a hobby you never would have imagined you would enjoy, like sailing, golfing, fine dining or going to the opera.”
Finally, relationships with an age difference tend to last longer because both parties know what they want and what to expect from the future. These relationships tend to want a more peaceful life and “are less susceptible to engage in toxic relationships or create drama.”
So, if you are still hesitating about dating someone with an age gap, we’re happy to tell you that the experts support it!
