Despite how close he is to the family, it sounds as though Scott Disick won’t be joining the Kardashian-Jenners for a big upcoming celebration: Kourtney Kardashian’s wedding to Travis Barker

Of course, inviting your ex to your wedding isn’t a common occurrence, but Kardashian and Disick aren’t any old exes. Since ending their relationship for good in 2015, the pair have continued to stay close friends: they vacation together with their three children, celebrate holidays together and have continued to work together on Keeping Up with the Kardashians (Disick will also be part of the family’s new Hulu show, too.)

But despite Kardashian being totally over their romantic relationship, it appears Disick still harboured feelings for her, revealing in the latest season of KUWTK he was hoping to give things another go. Then, when Kardashian went public with her new beau, Travis Barker, Disick didn’t handle things well, deciding to send DMs to Kardashian’s other ex Younes that were later made public. The fiasco prompted his new girlfriend, Amelia Hamlin, to swiftly end their relationship, and likely factored in his cull from the wedding guest list, too. 

“Kourtney is of the mindset that she is going towards her future, and the past with Scott shouldn’t be there on her special day,” a source told Hollywood Life earlier this month. “[The] likelihood of Scott being a part of Kourtney’s wedding in any way is pretty nonexistent.”

“[Kourtney] doesn’t think it would be appropriate,” a second source explained, noting that even if he was invited, Disick “would never go in a million years.”

A third person added Kardashian wouldn’t consider including Disick, with whom she shares kids, Mason, 11, Penelope, 9, and Reign, 6, on her guest list because he’s “so unpredictable.”

“Even if he was invited, he would not go,” the insider continued. “He could have had this with Kourtney, and he will have to live with that regret forever.”

As for where the awkward levels are at, post-engagement, a source recently told E! News when Disick was confronted with Kardashian and Barker over the weekend at a mutual friend’s wedding, he “kept his distance for the majority of the night” because “he doesn’t want to see [their] PDA.”

“It’s still very awkward for Scott to be around them. But he knows he can’t escape them. He had a lot of friends there and was hanging with Kris and Khloe most of the night,” they added.

Meanwhile, the newly engaged couple has been vacationing in Mexico to celebrate Barker’s birthday, for which Kardashian bought the drummer his “dream car.”