VENICE, ITALY – SEPTEMBER 10: Ben Affleck and Jennifer Lopez attend the red carpet of the movie “The Last Duel” during the 78th Venice International Film Festival on September 10, 2021 in Venice, Italy. (Photo by Stephane Cardinale – Corbis/Corbis via Getty Images)

In a scene that could be straight out of one of their respective early 2000s’ rom-coms, Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck are finally married, tying the knot in a weekend-long celebration in Georgia with the bride wearing a dress by Ralph Lauren. 

The happy couple were surrounded by friends and family, including Affleck and ex-wife Jennifer Garner’s children Violet, 16, Seraphina, 13, Samuel, 10, and Lopez and her ex-husband Marc Anthony’s twins, Max and Emme, 14.

But notably, absent was Affleck’s younger brother, actor Casey Affleck.

On the day of the nuptials, paparazzi photographed Affleck on a coffee run in LA — nowhere near the rest of his family, who were in Georgia for Bennifer’s (second) big day. When asked by one of the photographers why he wasn’t at his brother’s wedding, he responded with a brief sentence that sounded like, “I have other things,” as seen in a video posted by Page Six and TMZ

BEVERLY HILLS, CA – JANUARY 08: Casey Affleck and Ben Affleck attend Amazon Studios Golden Globes Celebration at The Beverly Hilton Hotel on January 8, 2017 in Beverly Hills, California. (Photo by Todd Williamson/Getty Images for Amazon)

A source told People the actor skipped the celebrations due to “family, parental obligations at home.” He has two sons, Indiana, 18, and Atticus, 14, who he shares with his ex-wife, Summer Phoenix.

Thankfully, it appears there’s no drama beyond that: following the wedding, the youngest Affleck brother took to Instagram to share a throwback photo of himself with his brother and new sister-in-law the first time they dated back in the early 2000s. 

“Good things are worth waiting for,” he captioned the photo. “Here is to twists and turns, new beginnings, and finding new reservoirs of old love.”

He added, “Welcome to the family. Get ready for some real dysfunction! Kidding. I am kidding. Jen, you are a gem. We love you so much!!! ❤️”