{"id":95142,"date":"2024-09-30T10:13:06","date_gmt":"2024-09-30T10:13:06","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/graziamagazine.com\/us\/?post_type=articles&#038;p=95142"},"modified":"2024-09-30T10:13:06","modified_gmt":"2024-09-30T10:13:06","slug":"sleep-divorce-secret-happier-relationship","status":"publish","type":"articles","link":"https:\/\/graziamagazine.com\/us\/articles\/sleep-divorce-secret-happier-relationship\/","title":{"rendered":"Sleep Divorce: The Secret to a Happier Relationship"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-95146 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/graziamagazine.com\/us\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/15\/2024\/09\/sleep-divorce-couple-cuddling.jpg\" alt=\"sleep-divorce-couple-cuddling\" width=\"1600\" height=\"567\" srcset=\"https:\/\/graziamagazine.com\/us\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/15\/2024\/09\/sleep-divorce-couple-cuddling.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/graziamagazine.com\/us\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/15\/2024\/09\/sleep-divorce-couple-cuddling-300x106.jpg 300w, https:\/\/graziamagazine.com\/us\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/15\/2024\/09\/sleep-divorce-couple-cuddling-1024x363.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/graziamagazine.com\/us\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/15\/2024\/09\/sleep-divorce-couple-cuddling-768x272.jpg 768w, https:\/\/graziamagazine.com\/us\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/15\/2024\/09\/sleep-divorce-couple-cuddling-1536x544.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/graziamagazine.com\/us\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/15\/2024\/09\/sleep-divorce-couple-cuddling-400x142.jpg 400w, https:\/\/graziamagazine.com\/us\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/15\/2024\/09\/sleep-divorce-couple-cuddling-155x55.jpg 155w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><em>&#8220;Better alone than in bad company.&#8221;<\/em> This is what popular wisdom suggests&#8230; but when it comes to sleep, is it better to be alone or with your partner?<\/p>\n<p>Science still doesn&#8217;t have a definitive answer. In other words, <strong>sleep is such a personal matter<\/strong> that everyone has their own preferences.<\/p>\n<p>However, one thing is certain: sleeping well is crucial for both health and relationship quality.<\/p>\n<p>Yet, thanks to a trend popularized by some celebrities, the concept of <strong>Sleep Divorce<\/strong>\u2014sleeping in separate beds\u2014is gaining traction.<\/p>\n<p>In this context, Emma \u2013 The Sleep Company, a leading global brand in this industry, wanted to share some tips to help improve couple well-being starting from resting.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-95145 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/graziamagazine.com\/us\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/15\/2024\/09\/sleep-divorce-alone-in-bed.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1200\" height=\"900\" srcset=\"https:\/\/graziamagazine.com\/us\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/15\/2024\/09\/sleep-divorce-alone-in-bed.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/graziamagazine.com\/us\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/15\/2024\/09\/sleep-divorce-alone-in-bed-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/graziamagazine.com\/us\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/15\/2024\/09\/sleep-divorce-alone-in-bed-1024x768.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/graziamagazine.com\/us\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/15\/2024\/09\/sleep-divorce-alone-in-bed-768x576.jpg 768w, https:\/\/graziamagazine.com\/us\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/15\/2024\/09\/sleep-divorce-alone-in-bed-400x300.jpg 400w, https:\/\/graziamagazine.com\/us\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/15\/2024\/09\/sleep-divorce-alone-in-bed-155x116.jpg 155w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1200px) 100vw, 1200px\" \/><\/p>\n<h1><strong>Sleep Divorce: What It Is and Its Benefits<\/strong><\/h1>\n<p>As an integral part of our overall health, <strong>quality rest should never be neglected.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>The trend of Sleep Divorce is based on the idea that <strong>sleeping separately<\/strong> can actually improve the relationship, especially in cases where co-sleeping makes it hard for one or both partners to sleep well.<\/p>\n<p>This trend is essentially a consensual decision to be in separate beds under the same roof, <strong>not due to relationship strife,<\/strong> but with the aim of enhancing both partners&#8217; sleep and health.<\/p>\n<p>This practice is already established in many cultures, such as the<strong> Japanese,<\/strong> and is becoming more common in the West, partly thanks to numerous celebrity couples who have adopted this system.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-95144 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/graziamagazine.com\/us\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/15\/2024\/09\/Getty-Images-couple-happy-in-bed-together.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1200\" height=\"900\" srcset=\"https:\/\/graziamagazine.com\/us\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/15\/2024\/09\/Getty-Images-couple-happy-in-bed-together.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/graziamagazine.com\/us\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/15\/2024\/09\/Getty-Images-couple-happy-in-bed-together-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/graziamagazine.com\/us\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/15\/2024\/09\/Getty-Images-couple-happy-in-bed-together-1024x768.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/graziamagazine.com\/us\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/15\/2024\/09\/Getty-Images-couple-happy-in-bed-together-768x576.jpg 768w, https:\/\/graziamagazine.com\/us\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/15\/2024\/09\/Getty-Images-couple-happy-in-bed-together-400x300.jpg 400w, https:\/\/graziamagazine.com\/us\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/15\/2024\/09\/Getty-Images-couple-happy-in-bed-together-155x116.jpg 155w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1200px) 100vw, 1200px\" \/><\/p>\n<h2>Happy Rest, Happy Couple<\/h2>\n<p>Healthy and restful sleep can be fundamental within a relationship. If our rest is disturbed or we don\u2019t get enough hours, it will certainly <strong>affect our mood<\/strong> the next day.<\/p>\n<p>This doesn\u2019t help us be loving partners. We may easily find ourselves<strong> irritated and resentful towards the other person,<\/strong> especially if they are the cause of our poor rest.<\/p>\n<p>This idea is supported by a study from <strong>Ohio State University,<\/strong> which found that poor sleep quality increases communication problems and conflicts in relationships.<\/p>\n<p>Moreover, without energy, we are less inclined to spend time with our partner. Over time, this can be detrimental to the relationship and even lead to a breakup.<\/p>\n<h2>To Sleep Together or Apart? The Pros and Cons<\/h2>\n<p>It\u2019s well established that couples\u2019 sleep is <strong>interdependent.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Whether being in bed together is positive or negative depends on each individual and the overall strength of the relationship. However, studies show clear benefits.<\/p>\n<p>For instance, smelling your partner while falling asleep can enhance efficiency. Additionally, sleeping together can increase the amount of<strong> REM sleep.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>The REM phase is the d<strong>eep phase where we dream,<\/strong> and it is closely linked to our emotional conflicts. During this phase, the body reduces and removes a stress hormone called norepinephrine, <strong>helping us wake up more relaxed.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s also important to note that physical contact releases <strong>oxytocin,<\/strong> the &#8220;<strong>love hormone.&#8221; <\/strong>This\u00a0has positive effects on both stress levels and our connection with our partner. A recent study found that sleeping with a partner improves intimacy and synchronizes heartbeats.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/graziamagazine.com\/us\/articles\/cameron-diaz-married-couples-living-separately\/\">Cameron Diaz Thinks That Couples Living Separately Should Be Normalised<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/graziamagazine.com\/us\/articles\/heres-why-you-should-sleep-naked-this-summer\/\">Here\u2019s Why You Should Sleep Naked This Summer<\/a><\/p>\n<p><em>This article first appeared on Grazia.it &#8211; Author: Miriam Tagini<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":42690,"featured_media":95146,"template":"","format":"standard","categories":[6939,16,2723],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO Premium plugin v18.5 (Yoast SEO v20.4) - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>Sleep Divorce: The Secret to a Happier Relationship - Grazia USA<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"Explore the Sleep Divorce trend, where couples choose separate beds to enhance sleep quality and improve relationship health.\" \/>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/graziamagazine.com\/us\/articles\/sleep-divorce-secret-happier-relationship\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"en_US\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Sleep Divorce: The Secret to a Happier Relationship\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"Explore the Sleep Divorce trend, where couples choose separate beds to enhance sleep quality and improve relationship health.\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:url\" content=\"https:\/\/graziamagazine.com\/us\/articles\/sleep-divorce-secret-happier-relationship\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:site_name\" content=\"Grazia USA\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:image\" content=\"https:\/\/graziamagazine.com\/us\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/15\/2024\/09\/sleep-divorce-couple-cuddling.jpg\" \/>\n\t<meta property=\"og:image:width\" content=\"1600\" \/>\n\t<meta property=\"og:image:height\" content=\"567\" \/>\n\t<meta property=\"og:image:type\" content=\"image\/jpeg\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:card\" content=\"summary_large_image\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:label1\" content=\"Est. reading time\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:data1\" content=\"3 minutes\" \/>\n<script type=\"application\/ld+json\" class=\"yoast-schema-graph\">{\"@context\":\"https:\/\/schema.org\",\"@graph\":[{\"@type\":\"WebPage\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/graziamagazine.com\/us\/articles\/sleep-divorce-secret-happier-relationship\/\",\"url\":\"https:\/\/graziamagazine.com\/us\/articles\/sleep-divorce-secret-happier-relationship\/\",\"name\":\"Sleep Divorce: The Secret to a Happier Relationship - 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