{"id":91394,"date":"2024-06-02T09:28:51","date_gmt":"2024-06-02T09:28:51","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/graziamagazine.com\/us\/?post_type=articles&#038;p=91394"},"modified":"2024-06-02T09:28:51","modified_gmt":"2024-06-02T09:28:51","slug":"do-opposites-really-attract-science-says-no-heres-why","status":"publish","type":"articles","link":"https:\/\/graziamagazine.com\/us\/articles\/do-opposites-really-attract-science-says-no-heres-why\/","title":{"rendered":"Do Opposites Really Attract? Science Says No: Here&#8217;s Why"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignfull-width wp-image-91396 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/graziamagazine.com\/us\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/15\/2024\/06\/couple-summer-love-hero-couples.jpg\" alt=\"couple-summer-love-hero-couples\" width=\"1600\" height=\"567\" srcset=\"https:\/\/graziamagazine.com\/us\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/15\/2024\/06\/couple-summer-love-hero-couples.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/graziamagazine.com\/us\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/15\/2024\/06\/couple-summer-love-hero-couples-300x106.jpg 300w, https:\/\/graziamagazine.com\/us\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/15\/2024\/06\/couple-summer-love-hero-couples-1024x363.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/graziamagazine.com\/us\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/15\/2024\/06\/couple-summer-love-hero-couples-768x272.jpg 768w, https:\/\/graziamagazine.com\/us\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/15\/2024\/06\/couple-summer-love-hero-couples-1536x544.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/graziamagazine.com\/us\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/15\/2024\/06\/couple-summer-love-hero-couples-400x142.jpg 400w, https:\/\/graziamagazine.com\/us\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/15\/2024\/06\/couple-summer-love-hero-couples-155x55.jpg 155w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong><em>How many times have you heard that &#8220;opposites attract&#8221;?<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>This popular saying has always fueled the romantic hopes of many people, but new scientific research could make us <strong>reconsider this belief.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>The study, conducted by the <em>University of Colorado in the United States<\/em> and published in the journal <em>Nature Human Behaviour,<\/em><strong> examined data over nearly a century<\/strong> that includes information on more than 130 distinctive personal traits, including <strong>political inclinations, age of first sexual encounter, and consumption habits.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Surprisingly, for most of these 130 characteristics, <strong>each of us tends to partner with someone similar who shares the same values and ideals.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Only in a small percentage of cases have individuals opted for partners with characteristics different from their own.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/graziamagazine.com\/us\/articles\/navigating-love-insights-from-series-characters\/\">Navigating Love: Insights from Series&#8217; Characters<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/graziamagazine.com\/us\/articles\/7-mistakes-prevent-you-finding-love\/\">7 Mistakes that Prevent You from Finding Love<\/a><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignfull-width wp-image-91395 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/graziamagazine.com\/us\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/15\/2024\/06\/couple-bench-thinking-love.jpg\" alt=\"couple-bench-thinking-love\" width=\"1000\" height=\"749\" srcset=\"https:\/\/graziamagazine.com\/us\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/15\/2024\/06\/couple-bench-thinking-love.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/graziamagazine.com\/us\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/15\/2024\/06\/couple-bench-thinking-love-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/graziamagazine.com\/us\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/15\/2024\/06\/couple-bench-thinking-love-768x575.jpg 768w, https:\/\/graziamagazine.com\/us\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/15\/2024\/06\/couple-bench-thinking-love-400x300.jpg 400w, https:\/\/graziamagazine.com\/us\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/15\/2024\/06\/couple-bench-thinking-love-155x116.jpg 155w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>\n<h2>Opposites Don&#8217;t Attract: Science Explains Why<\/h2>\n<p>According to experts, <strong>these findings could revolutionize the way we conceive romantic relationships.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Dr. Matt Keller, the study&#8217;s author, emphasized that <em>&#8220;a lot of models in genetics assume that human pairing is random. This study shows that this assumption is probably wrong.&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>&#8220;These results suggest that even in situations where we feel we have a choice about our relationships, <strong>there may be mechanisms happening behind the scenes that we are not fully aware of,<\/strong>&#8220;<\/em> says Dr. and researcher Tanya Horwitz.<\/p>\n<p>In other words, the new discovery prompts us to reflect on our personal preferences and the underlying mechanisms of relationships, leading us to <strong>consider similarities more carefully when seeking a romantic partner.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Ultimately, although the saying <em>&#8220;opposites attract&#8221; <\/em>has had enduring romantic charm, it seems that reality is different.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Science teaches us that when it comes to love, we may be more inclined to find our soulmate among those who share our same characteristics.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>This article first appeared on Grazia.it\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":42690,"featured_media":91396,"template":"","format":"standard","categories":[6939,38,16],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO Premium plugin v18.5 (Yoast SEO v20.4) - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>Do Opposites Really Attract? 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