{"id":89257,"date":"2024-03-28T11:04:05","date_gmt":"2024-03-28T00:04:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/graziamagazine.com\/?post_type=articles&#038;p=250346"},"modified":"2024-03-28T11:04:05","modified_gmt":"2024-03-28T00:04:05","slug":"eva-mendes-stay-at-home-mother","status":"publish","type":"articles","link":"https:\/\/graziamagazine.com\/us\/articles\/eva-mendes-stay-at-home-mother\/","title":{"rendered":"Eva Mendes: \u201c[Ryan and I] Had A Non-Verbal Agreement That I Would Be A Stay-At-Home Mum\u201d"},"content":{"rendered":"<figure id=\"attachment_250350\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-250350\" style=\"width: 1707px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-250350\" src=\"https:\/\/graziamagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/GettyImages-1208092370-scaled.jpg\" alt=\"eva-mendes\" width=\"1707\" height=\"2560\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-250350\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">LOS ANGELES, CALIFORNIA &#8211; FEBRUARY 22: Eva Mendes speaks at Create &amp; Cultivate Los Angeles at Rolling Greens Los Angeles on February 22, 2020 in Los Angeles, California. (Photo by Phillip Faraone\/Getty Images)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/graziamagazine.com\/articles\/eva-mendes-ryan-gosling-married-wedding\/\">Eva Mendes says she and her partner Ryan Gosling<\/a> had a mutual, non-verbal agreement that he would work on movies and she would stay at home to look after their two daughters.<\/p>\n<p>Speaking with the <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/TODAYshow\/status\/1772630680872038651\" target=\"_blank\"><em>Today<\/em> <\/a>show in the U.S., Mendes, 50, says it was a \u201cno brainer\u201d to put her Hollywood career on hold while she spent more time with her young children Esmeralda, 9, and Amada, 7.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIt was almost just like a non-verbal agreement [between Ryan and I] that it was like, \u2018OK, he\u2019s going to work and I\u2019m going to work, I\u2019m just going to work <em>here<\/em> [at home],\u2019\u201d Mendes says. \u201cI still worked, I just didn\u2019t act because acting takes you on locations, it takes you away.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Mendes\u2014who is now spruiking a new cleaning product brand called Skura\u2014met and fell in love with Gosling on the set of the 2012 film\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/graziamagazine.com\/articles\/eva-mendes-didnt-want-kids-until-she-fell-in-love-with-ryan-gosling\/\"><em>The Place Beyond the Pines<\/em><\/a>, a high-octane tale of a motorcycle stunt rider who turns to robbing banks to provide for his former partner and their newborn.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI have never experienced anything like that,\u201d Mendes says. \u201cThe way [Ryan] works, his commitment to his craft, how he wants to make everything as best it could be, and that means making his co-stars as best as they could be\u2026But unfortunately, or fortunately,\u00a0there is only one Ryan. So, I pretty much stopped just acting after that.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Since her role in the <em>Place Beyond The Pines<\/em> 12 years ago, Mendes has had six acting roles.<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_250351\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-250351\" style=\"width: 1955px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-250351\" src=\"https:\/\/graziamagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/GettyImages-151486301-scaled.jpg\" alt=\"eva-mendes-ryan-gosling\" width=\"1955\" height=\"2560\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-250351\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">TORONTO, ON &#8211; SEPTEMBER 07: Actors Eva Mendes and Ryan Gosling attend &#8220;The Place Beyond The Pines&#8221; premiere during the 2012 Toronto International Film Festival at Princess of Wales Theatre on September 7, 2012 in Toronto, Canada. (Photo by Sonia Recchia\/Getty Images)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"The Place Beyond The Pines | Official Trailer | Starring Ryan Gosling and Bradley Cooper\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/KepnbJT5nBw?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p>The couple\u2019s daughters attended a dress rehearsal of the <a href=\"https:\/\/graziamagazine.com\/articles\/oscars-2024-winners\/\">2024 Academy Awards<\/a> ceremony so that they could see there dad <a href=\"https:\/\/graziamagazine.com\/articles\/oscras-2024-watch-ryan-gosling-perform-im-just-ken\/\">perform his now iconic song \u201cI\u2019m Just Ken.\u201d<\/a><\/p>\n<p>\u201cIt was so fun because [my daughters] came to the dress rehearsal the day before and so they were in the front row,\u201d Gosling told\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/people.com\/eva-mendes-says-walking-away-from-acting-to-raise-her-daughters-was-a-no-brainer-8620596\" target=\"_blank\"><em>People<\/em><\/a>. \u201cThey gave me some tips and some notes, all great notes. They are such a huge part of this for me\u2026it was my girls\u2019 interest in Barbie and disinterest in Ken that got me into this in the first place. It was beautiful to have them there at the end.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Of the performance, Mendes says, \u201c[Ryan] went and he did his job. 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