{"id":82870,"date":"2023-11-01T08:59:55","date_gmt":"2023-10-31T21:59:55","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/graziamagazine.com\/?post_type=articles&p=241896"},"modified":"2023-11-01T09:21:40","modified_gmt":"2023-11-01T09:21:40","slug":"selena-gomez-taylor-swift-travis-kelce-releationship","status":"publish","type":"articles","link":"https:\/\/graziamagazine.com\/us\/articles\/selena-gomez-taylor-swift-travis-kelce-releationship\/","title":{"rendered":"Selena Gomez Weighing In On Taylor Swift & Travis Kelce\u2019s Relationship Is An Important Lesson About Female Friendships And New Romances"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Selena Gomez and Taylor Swift at the 2023 MTV Video Music Awards held at Prudential Center on September 12, 2023 in Newark, New Jersey. (Photo by Christopher Polk\/Variety via Getty Images)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

In the contemporary dating landscape<\/a>, our lexicon for articulating and navigating a new romance has never been so advanced. Yet, there\u2019s one element that we still haven\u2019t managed to perfect: how to bring up to your friend that you don\u2019t like their new partner.<\/p>\n

This situation\u2014whether fabricated or fact\u2014is one Selena Gomez, Taylor Swift and Travis Kelce have seemingly found themselves in after reports have circulated that Gomez is \u201cconcerned\u201d about the burgeoning power couple.<\/p>\n

As per Page Six<\/em><\/a>, a source from Gomez\u2019s camp vocalised the Only Murders In The Building<\/em> star\u2019s worries about Swift and Kelce \u201cmoving too fast\u201d. <\/a><\/p>\n

\u201cSelena thinks Taylor going to games and galavanting through New York immediately after just meeting Travis is something that is very unlike her,\u201d the insider claimed. The source also added that Gomez reportedly finds it \u201codd\u201d that Swift has \u201chistorically always been super private about everything\u201d but is now \u201cso open\u201d about her relationship with the Kansas City Chiefs tight end.<\/a><\/p>\n

Further still, the source claims that Gomez found it \u201calarming\u201d when Swift met Kelce\u2019s mother in such a public forum, adding that the back-to-back paparazzi pictures<\/a> of them together were \u201cstrange\u201d. The source noted that Gomez has reportedly even turned down several invitations to attend the Chiefs games with Swift<\/a> as she allegedly doesn\u2019t want a bar of the \u201cmedia frenzy.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cSelena just doesn\u2019t want to be part of [it] because it\u2019s really chaotic,\u201d the insider added. \u201cIt didn\u2019t come from a malicious place, and it\u2019s not that she doesn\u2019t like them together. She\u2019s just concerned about the way it\u2019s being navigated,\u201d they explained before adding that Swift\u2019s other friends, including the Haim sisters<\/a>, Este, 37, Danielle, 34, and Alana, 31, \u201cthink this way as well\u201d.<\/p>\n

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LOS ANGELES, CA – OCTOBER 19: Taylor Swift and Selena Gomez are seen at Sushi Park on October 19, 2023 in Los Angeles, California. (Photo by MEGA\/GC Images)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

Of course, our experience with voicing our opinions on a friend\u2019s new relationship has never made it to the public arena. So, naturally, netizens have been quick to draw lines in the sand. Some, including anonymous gossipmonger DeuxMoi, deny that Gomez would release that statement. Others are claiming that Gomez\u2019s source is coming from a place of jealousy over seeing her best friend happy.<\/p>\n

Irrespective of whether there is any credence to this rumour, it does raise an important issue on the topic of female friends and new romances. Where do we give allowances for those who speak up in favour of their friend\u2019s best interests? And why are we so quick to villainise those who may not look at supposedly \u2018fairy tale\u2019 romances through rose-coloured glasses? Is it best not to say anything at all if we feel unsure about a new partner<\/a>?<\/p>\n

This problem crops up repeatedly and is something no one has an answer to. But, if there\u2019s one thing to glean, it\u2019s that discussing sticky subjects is something best done in private\u2014not in a public way where anyone can insert their opinions.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":42674,"featured_media":82871,"template":"","format":"standard","categories":[38,16],"yoast_head":"\nSelena Gomez Thinks Taylor & Travis Are Moving "Too Fast"<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"Selena Gomez has concerns about Taylor Swift and Travis Kelce's new relationship, allegedly claiming the pair are moving "too fast."\" \/>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/graziamagazine.com\/us\/articles\/selena-gomez-taylor-swift-travis-kelce-releationship\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"en_US\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Does Selena Gomez Have A Right To Give 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