{"id":80250,"date":"2023-09-04T14:27:53","date_gmt":"2023-09-04T04:27:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/graziamagazine.com\/?post_type=articles&#038;p=238107"},"modified":"2023-09-04T07:56:55","modified_gmt":"2023-09-04T07:56:55","slug":"tinder-tabi-thief","status":"publish","type":"articles","link":"https:\/\/graziamagazine.com\/us\/articles\/tinder-tabi-thief\/","title":{"rendered":"Just When We Thought We Had It Bad Enough, Tinder Dates Are Now Stealing Margiela Tabis"},"content":{"rendered":"<figure id=\"attachment_238110\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-238110\" style=\"width: 1024px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-238110\" src=\"https:\/\/graziamagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/Tinder-Tabi-Thief.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1024\" height=\"1536\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-238110\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Maison Margiela&#8217;s Tabi on the catwalk (Photo by WWD\/Penske Media via Getty Images)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p class=\"p1\">They say all is fair in love and war, but after one New Yorker\u2019s<a href=\"https:\/\/graziamagazine.com\/articles\/what-is-ghostlighting\/\"> nightmare-fulled dating disaster<\/a> has gone viral, it\u2019s apparent that a clause be added to that adage. Because when it comes to matters of the heart, <a href=\"https:\/\/graziamagazine.com\/articles\/paris-fashion-week-ss24-schedule\/\">Maison Margiela&#8217;s Tabi<\/a> shoes should be left out of the bedroom. Rather, behind a six-inch steel vault kept under lock and key and away from sticky fingers. Break our hearts, but do not come from our $1,000 shoes.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">This story begins, like any romance should, with a simple connection. Manhattan-based influencer Alexis Doug\u00e9 (who goes by the handle @nextlevellexus) matched with someone on Tinder\u2014who (from his profile) is a 5\u201910, 23-year-old named Joshua. Without abusing the metaphor too much, they got off on the right foot, seeing each other in SoHo in real life before chatting over the app.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">On their second date, the Tinder swindler came over to Doug\u00e9\u2019s apartment. As it transpired, Joshua had ulterior motives, leaving their date with more than he came for: her Mary-Jane Tabis. As one user wrote in the comment section of Doug\u00e9\u2019s now-viral video, \u201c<a href=\"https:\/\/graziamagazine.com\/articles\/bella-hadid-marc-kalman-split\/\">Fashion guys<\/a> are sinister\u201d.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_238112\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-238112\" style=\"width: 1024px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-238112\" src=\"https:\/\/graziamagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/Tinder-Margiela-Tabis-Thief.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1024\" height=\"1280\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-238112\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Alexis Doug\u00e9 in her missing Maison Margiela Tabis. Credit: Instagram\/<a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/nextlevellexuss\/\" target=\"_blank\">@nextlevellexus<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p class=\"p1\">\u201cNew York fashion girlies beware, this man is out here on Tinder and Hinge and he will steal from you,\u201d Doug\u00e9 started her video. \u201cHe seems like a nice guy and someone I would just probably hang out with for a little fling,\u201d she continued, sharing screenshots of his dating profile in the process.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">\u201cHe was pretty persistent about seeing me again and hanging. So, fast forward he comes over and we sleep together. Before we slept together we were chatting about fashion and how he really wants Tabis.\u201d The first red flag.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">The second red flag came the morning after their hook-up, with Joshua hoping to show her a Spotify playlist that he thought she\u2019d like (it wasn\u2019t the <i>Pink Panther <\/i>theme, but it should\u2019ve been). Doug\u00e9 handed Joshua her phone as he didn\u2019t have the app. Hours pass, and her Mary Janes have vanished. Missing in action. Nowhere to be seen.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">\u201cI looked high and low and I can\u2019t find them anywhere, and said \u2018OK, that\u2019s fine I\u2019m not going to be accusatory\u2019, I just wanted to see if he knew where I put them,\u201d Doug\u00e9 continued. \u201cI go on Tinder to message him\u2026 unmatched, gone and I\u2019m like \u2018Oh no, this b**** stole my shoes.\u201d Just like her Tabis, Joshua\u2019s phone number was missing from her life too.<\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"tiktok-embed\" cite=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@nextlevellexuss\/video\/7273968192744099115\" data-video-id=\"7273968192744099115\" data-embed-from=\"oembed\" style=\"max-width: 605px;min-width: 325px;\" >\n<section> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@nextlevellexuss?refer=embed\"target=\"_blank\" title=\"@nextlevellexuss\"  target=\"_blank\">@nextlevellexuss<\/a> <\/p>\n<p>Girls and gays of TikTok please get to work \ud83d\ude2d <a href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/nycdating?refer=embed\"title=\"nycdating\" target=\"_blank\"  target=\"_blank\">#nycdating<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/tinderhorrorstories?refer=embed\"title=\"tinderhorrorstories\" target=\"_blank\"  target=\"_blank\">#tinderhorrorstories<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/hingedating?refer=embed\"title=\"hingedating\" target=\"_blank\"  target=\"_blank\">#hingedating<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/margielatabis?refer=embed\"title=\"margielatabis\" target=\"_blank\"  target=\"_blank\">#margielatabis<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/nyc?refer=embed\"title=\"nyc\" target=\"_blank\"  target=\"_blank\">#nyc<\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/greenscreen?refer=embed\"title=\"greenscreen\" target=\"_blank\"  target=\"_blank\">#greenscreen<\/a> <\/p>\n<p> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/music\/bad-idea-right-7265657877551941634?refer=embed\"target=\"_blank\" title=\"\u266c bad idea right? - Olivia Rodrigo\"  target=\"_blank\">\u266c bad idea right? &#8211; Olivia Rodrigo<\/a> <\/section>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p> <script async src=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/embed.js\"><\/script><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">As anyone who has ever dated in New York would know, the island of Manhattan is a small place. Within a few hours of Doug\u00e9\u2019s video being shared throughout the boroughs at hypersonic speed, someone had located Joshua. More importantly, they had tracked down her Tabis, too.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">\u201cYou guys boosted this s*** so well and got it to the right audiences. Someone reached out to me, knew who he was and gave me his Instagram,\u201d she added. But, before she could even make contact with the Tabi thief, Doug\u00e9 received a DM from a third party claiming to be Joshua\u2019s girlfriend who, plot twist, just received a pair of Tabs from him.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">\u201cMy friend has been dating him for months and he just gave her a pair of tabis!!!!!,&#8221; they wrote. &#8220;Do you have receipts I can show her?? so freaking out for her rn.&#8221;<\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"twitter-tweet\" data-width=\"500\" data-dnt=\"true\">\n<p lang=\"en\" dir=\"ltr\">YALLLL THERES AN UPDATE <a href=\"https:\/\/t.co\/c1WJ2Ly29A\" target=\"_blank\">pic.twitter.com\/c1WJ2Ly29A<\/a><\/p>\n<p>&mdash; girly teengirl (@demonicaquarius) <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/demonicaquarius\/status\/1697962623801647112?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\" target=\"_blank\">September 2, 2023<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><script async src=\"https:\/\/platform.twitter.com\/widgets.js\" charset=\"utf-8\"><\/script><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">\u201cI sent him a screenshot of his girlfriend wearing my tabs and hours later I got a text message saying \u2018ight you got me, I\u2019ll give you back your shoes can you take down the video?\u2019,\u201d Doug\u00e9 added.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">She concluded the saga with a video of herself reuniting with Joshua to pick up her shoes from Grand Central Station. \u201cSECURED!! This man is a demon. He was smiling the whole time,\u201d Doug\u00e9 wrote.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">Naturally, this story piqued the interest of TikTok\u2019s fashion sect.<\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"twitter-tweet\" data-width=\"500\" data-dnt=\"true\">\n<p lang=\"en\" dir=\"ltr\">i am so invested in the tabi swindler now, LIKE HE STOLE HER TABIS?? <a href=\"https:\/\/t.co\/2F8IrQ4UzO\" target=\"_blank\">pic.twitter.com\/2F8IrQ4UzO<\/a><\/p>\n<p>&mdash; andriana \u30b7 (@BOTTEGAHOENETA) <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/BOTTEGAHOENETA\/status\/1697868466127085613?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\" target=\"_blank\">September 2, 2023<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><script async src=\"https:\/\/platform.twitter.com\/widgets.js\" charset=\"utf-8\"><\/script><\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"twitter-tweet\" data-width=\"500\" data-dnt=\"true\">\n<p lang=\"en\" dir=\"ltr\">\u201cIight you caught me.\u201d &#8211; the Tabi swiper, 2023 <a href=\"https:\/\/t.co\/9GROEkjJ8y\" target=\"_blank\">pic.twitter.com\/9GROEkjJ8y<\/a><\/p>\n<p>&mdash; suzybishop&#39;s scissors (@hisuzybishop) <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hisuzybishop\/status\/1698071989603238324?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\" target=\"_blank\">September 2, 2023<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><script async src=\"https:\/\/platform.twitter.com\/widgets.js\" charset=\"utf-8\"><\/script><\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"twitter-tweet\" data-width=\"500\" data-dnt=\"true\">\n<p lang=\"en\" dir=\"ltr\">so jushua the tabi swiper calculatedly matched this fashion girlie on tinder, passed her in the street leading to a date where he blew her back out twice and heisted her margiela tabi shoes, ghosted her, then GIFTED THE SHOES TO HIS GIRLFRIEND?! <\/p>\n<p>i would need therapy after this. <a href=\"https:\/\/t.co\/TjcB3z1Iyh\" target=\"_blank\">pic.twitter.com\/TjcB3z1Iyh<\/a><\/p>\n<p>&mdash; luca (@LucaGuadagnegro) <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/LucaGuadagnegro\/status\/1697991060889166216?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\" target=\"_blank\">September 2, 2023<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><script async src=\"https:\/\/platform.twitter.com\/widgets.js\" charset=\"utf-8\"><\/script><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">The dame of Margiela Tabis herself, Brenda \u201cHashtag\u201d Weischer even wrote on Twitter: \u201cStop tagging me in the Tabi Tinder thief content I would never let a man into my closet.\u201d<\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"twitter-tweet\" data-width=\"500\" data-dnt=\"true\">\n<p lang=\"en\" dir=\"ltr\">stop tagging me in the tabi tinder thief content i would never let a man into my closet<\/p>\n<p>&mdash; brenda (@brendahashtag) <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/brendahashtag\/status\/1697998109500928162?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\" target=\"_blank\">September 2, 2023<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><script async src=\"https:\/\/platform.twitter.com\/widgets.js\" charset=\"utf-8\"><\/script><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">Though owning a pair of the pervasive footwear is fashion capital, is the fact men are stooping so low to steal their date&#8217;s shoes a sign of the times? Has dating become so heinous that not even our shoes are safe? Or, is the cost of living crisis so uncontrollable we\u2019re stooping to extreme measures?<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">Either way, this story is a warning of the perils of modern dating. We hope the writers of <i><a href=\"https:\/\/graziamagazine.com\/articles\/and-just-like-that-season-3\/\">And Just Like That<\/a> <\/i>are taking notes about the antics the men of Manhattan are getting up to.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">Thoughts and prayers for all the single women out there, we may not have a significant other, but at least we have our shoes.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":42674,"featured_media":80251,"template":"","format":"standard","categories":[17,16],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO Premium plugin v18.5 (Yoast SEO v20.4) - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>Explaining The Tinder Tabi Thief Saga Taking Over Your TikTok<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"After a woman&#039;s Tinder date stole her Maison Margiela Tabi Mary Jane&#039;s the story has gone viral. 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