{"id":62163,"date":"2022-08-09T14:13:31","date_gmt":"2022-08-09T14:13:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/graziamagazine.com\/?post_type=articles&#038;p=218774"},"modified":"2022-08-09T15:18:02","modified_gmt":"2022-08-09T15:18:02","slug":"jacob-elordi-ben-affleck-advice","status":"publish","type":"articles","link":"https:\/\/graziamagazine.com\/us\/articles\/jacob-elordi-ben-affleck-advice\/","title":{"rendered":"Jacob Elordi Approached Ben Affleck for Advice on Public Scrutiny"},"content":{"rendered":"<figure id=\"attachment_62164\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-62164\" style=\"width: 1584px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-62164 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/graziamagazine.com\/us\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/15\/2022\/08\/GettyImages-1395048835-Cropped.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1584\" height=\"890\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-62164\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Credit: Jamie McCarthy\/Getty Images<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>In 2018 <a href=\"https:\/\/graziamagazine.com\/articles\/kaia-gerber-and-jacob-elordi-are-the-chicest-elvis-and-priscilla\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Jacob Elordi<\/a> was shot to fame and heartthrob status for his role as Noah Flynn in the Netflix film\u00a0<em>The Kissing Booth.\u00a0<\/em>But it wasn&#8217;t the &#8220;I&#8217;ve made it&#8221; moment the actor was hoping for and instead he wanted to quit acting. In an interview with <em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.gq.com\/story\/jacob-elordi-cover-profile\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\" target=\"_blank\">GQ<\/a>,\u00a0<\/em>Elordi has revealed the pressures of life in the spotlight and why he approached Ben Affleck for advice.<\/p>\n<p>He told the publication that quitting acting &#8220;might sound quite sensitive and dramatic, but I am sensitive and I&#8217;m very dramatic. I hated being a character to the public. I felt so far from myself.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;It felt like, all of a sudden, I was a poster,&#8221; he said referring to the unwanted attention from paparazzi. &#8220;Like I was a billboard. It felt like it was for sale. Then my brain went through the f***ing wringer. Like, I wasn&#8217;t sure if I was genuine. It really skews your view\u2026. It creates a very paranoid way of living.&#8221;<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_218776\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-218776\" style=\"width: 731px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-218776\" src=\"https:\/\/graziamagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/GettyImages-1232849708.jpg\" alt=\"Jacob Elordi\" width=\"731\" height=\"1024\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-218776\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">NEW YORK CITY, NY &#8211; MAY 12: Jacob Elordi and Kaia Gerber are seen out for a walk on May 12, 2021 in New York City, New York. (Photo by MEGA\/GC Images)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>The Australian actor starred alongside <a href=\"https:\/\/graziamagazine.com\/articles\/ben-affleck-crying-paris-jennifer-lopez\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Ben Affleck<\/a> in the 2022 film\u00a0<em>Deep Water.\u00a0<\/em>During production, rumors circulated the internet that Elordi had been calling the paparazzi himself. He approached Affleck with advice on how to deal with the media however it wasn&#8217;t quite the magic fix Elordi wanted.<\/p>\n<p>Instead, Affleck said there would be some &#8220;bleak&#8221; moments where you feel like a phoney because maybe you did want them to take a photo of you. Harsh.<\/p>\n<p>Elordi has also appeared in the HBO Max drama\u00a0<em>Euphoria\u00a0<\/em>and is slated to star in the upcoming films\u00a0<em>Saltburn\u00a0<\/em>and\u00a0<em>Parallel.\u00a0<\/em>The 25-year-old has garnered plenty of fans within the industry as well, with footage from a Met Gala afterparty depicting the one and only <a href=\"https:\/\/graziamagazine.com\/articles\/leonardo-dicaprio-jacob-elordi-met-gala\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Leonardo DiCaprio fanning over the young actor.\u00a0<\/a><\/p>\n<p>He was also previously romantically linked to Kaia Gerber but they split in late 2021.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1627,"featured_media":62164,"template":"","format":"standard","categories":[23,16],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO Premium plugin v18.5 (Yoast SEO v20.4) - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>Jacob Elordi Wanted to Quit Acting, Sought Advice from Ben Affleck<\/title>\n<meta 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