{"id":49614,"date":"2022-02-08T17:33:36","date_gmt":"2022-02-08T17:33:36","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/graziamagazine.com\/us\/?post_type=articles&#038;p=49614"},"modified":"2022-02-17T14:02:41","modified_gmt":"2022-02-17T14:02:41","slug":"gilded-age-recap-episode-3-hbo","status":"publish","type":"articles","link":"https:\/\/graziamagazine.com\/us\/articles\/gilded-age-recap-episode-3-hbo\/","title":{"rendered":"\u2018The Gilded Age\u2019 Relationship Recap: An Extremely Decent Proposal"},"content":{"rendered":"<figure id=\"attachment_49618\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-49618\" style=\"width: 1024px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-large wp-image-49618\" src=\"https:\/\/graziamagazine.com\/us\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/15\/2022\/02\/thomas-cocquerel-louisa-jacobson-e1644339434327.jpg?w=1024\" alt=\"Thomas Cocquerel and Louisa Jacobson in &lt;i&gt;The Gilded Age&lt;\/i&gt;\" width=\"1024\" height=\"576\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-49618\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Thomas Cocquerel and Louisa Jacobson in <i>The Gilded Age<\/i> (Photo: Alison Cohen Rosa\/HBO)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>Remember last week when Ada (<a href=\"https:\/\/graziamagazine.com\/us\/articles\/cynthia-nixon-christopher-john-rogers-style\/\">Cynthia Nixon<\/a>) reminded her sister Agnes (Christine Baranski) that marrying for money doesn\u2019t always lead to happiness? I keep wondering why she would feel the need to say that out loud to a woman who has spent the first two episodes of this show talking about what a nightmare her marriage to her rich husband was. Ah, but such is <a href=\"https:\/\/graziamagazine.com\/us\/articles\/gilded-age-who-are-we-shipping-american-downton\/\"><em>The Gilded Ague<\/em> <\/a>(not a typo), and indeed the Julian Fellowes oeuvre more broadly: characters say and do whatever moves the plot along.<\/p>\n<p>Anyway, that\u2019s something I thought about during all the railroad shares stuff between George (Morgan Spector) and all da older aldermen in this week\u2019s episode. Blimey, that was an incomprehensible snooze! And it <em>dominated<\/em> the whole episode! Turns out, I really don\u2019t need this show to address the capitalist shenanigans of this particular period of American history. Stick to romantic shenanigans, Lord Fellowes! Speaking of which\u2026<\/p>\n<p><strong>Marian and Mr. Raikes<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Is it just me or is Mr. Raikes (Thomas Cocquerel) moving kinda fast? Like, one minute he\u2019s Marian\u2019s lawyer (right?), the next he\u2019s stalking her all the way to New York. And now suddenly he\u2019s proposing marriage in front of the nascent Statue of Liberty\u2019s dismembered hand? The man is thirsty, and if I\u2019m gaming out the Right Honourable Julian Fellowes of it all, I don\u2019t think he and Marian are bound for wedded bliss. Tom Raikes seems like the classic good-on-paper guy: decent job, good prospects, super nice, unquestionably sweet on Marian. And bonus, he comes from the wrong caste, which will piss off Aunt Agnes, so getting involved with him has the added soup\u00e7on of drama.<\/p>\n<p>But obviously this relationship can\u2019t glide this smoothly towards its destination\u2014like a locomotive arriving at the grandest of new centralized railway stations. No, I think Mr. Raikes is a red herring. Marian definitely likes him and possibly finds his pursuit even more enticing because of her aunt\u2019s disapproval. But you can already tell there\u2019s something holding her back, and it\u2019s not just his lightning round approach to courtship\u2014which, actually, is that just how dating worked back then? I don\u2019t know! But still.<\/p>\n<p>Also, where the hell is Larry for most of this episode? He and Marian had that meet cute in the premiere, but the show has basically let that pairing whither on the vine for the past two weeks. To be clear, Mari and Larry seem like they would be such a bloodless drag of a couple that I would be absolutely fine if they never share a scene again. But I also fully expect a Marian, Larry and Mr. Raikes love triangle to develop at some point, so it seems really dumb to have kept two-thirds of that mess apart for two whole episodes.<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_49640\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-49640\" style=\"width: 1024px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-large wp-image-49640\" src=\"https:\/\/graziamagazine.com\/us\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/15\/2022\/02\/harry-richardson-blake-ritson-e1644340593417.jpg?w=1024\" alt=\"Blake Ritson in The Gilded Age\" width=\"1024\" height=\"685\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-49640\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Blake Ritson in <i>The Gilded Age<\/i> (Photo: Alison Cohen Rosa\/HBO)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p><strong>Oscar and John Adams and Gladys<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Welp. As predicted, Oscar (Blake Ritson) is bent (ha!) on seducing Gladys Russell (Taissia Farmiga) into being his wealthy clueless child bride (<em>how old is she though?<\/em>) so that he and hunky John Adams (Claybourne Elder) can keep doing their secret gay affair under her virginally oblivious nose. Except luckily, because of the railroading subplot, Oscar is thinking maybe Gladys won\u2019t be so rich anymore after all. So, maybe he\u2019s done with this? And will spend more time shirtless with John Adams? I sure hope so!<\/p>\n<p>Still, it sure is a bummer that scheming and dishonest and a little tragic is the only register in which Hizzoner Sir Julian Fellowes can write queer characters. (Also, I\u2019m just realizing he\u2019s never included lesbian characters in any of his shows. What\u2019s that about? Does he not know that lesbians exist?)<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_49619\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-49619\" style=\"width: 1024px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-large wp-image-49619\" src=\"https:\/\/graziamagazine.com\/us\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/15\/2022\/02\/louisa-jacobson-cynthia-nixon-bill-irwin-e1644339392817.jpg?w=1024\" alt=\"Cynthia Nixon and Bill Irwin in &lt;i&gt;The Gilded Age&lt;\/i&gt;\" width=\"1024\" height=\"723\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-49619\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Cynthia Nixon and Bill Irwin in <i>The Gilded Age<\/i> (Photo: Alison Cohen Rosa\/HBO)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p><strong>Ada and Mr. Eckhard<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>In other developments I immediately foresaw, we are introduced to Cornelius Eckhard (Bill Irwin), a gentleman from Aunt Ada\u2019s past. And oh how she blushes and flutters in his charming presence! Now, you all may remember that I am firmly on Team Spinster, both in life and <em>vis-\u00e0-vis<\/em> Ada. I think it does the character a disservice to imply that her life has been somehow lonely and empty and <em>wasted<\/em> without a romantic relationship. But this is a Julian Fellowes joint, so of course there has to be a lost love that Ada has been secretly pining after all these years.<\/p>\n<p>It turns out, however, that Mr. Eckhard may not be as honorable as he seems. According to Agnes, he\u2019s just out to get Ada\u2019s money, and when she informs him that Ada has no money of her own, Mr. Eckhard skedaddles right on out of there! But the weird thing about this show and these characters is that everyone is so buttoned up and averse to conflict that I\u2019m never sure, in a situation like this, whether we\u2019re getting the whole story. I believe that Agnes is trying to look out for Ada, and I believe that <em>Agnes<\/em> believes that Mr. Eckhard is a scoundrel. But is it possible there was some kind of misunderstanding and, a few weeks from now, we get a late-breaking twist that actually Mr. Eckhard <em>does<\/em> love Ada, and he just was too intimidated by Agnes to stick up for himself? I mean, I wouldn\u2019t put that kind of soap opera nonsense past this show. But also, this might be the last we see of him! Who knows!<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_49639\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-49639\" style=\"width: 1024px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-large wp-image-49639\" src=\"https:\/\/graziamagazine.com\/us\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/15\/2022\/02\/dene-e-benton_1-e1644340294539.jpg?w=1024\" alt=\"Den\u00e9e Benton in The Gilded Age\" width=\"1024\" height=\"682\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-49639\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Den\u00e9e Benton in <i>The Gilded Age<\/i> (Photo: Alison Cohen Rosa\/HBO)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p><strong>Peggy and Her Dad<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Still no romance in sight for Peggy (Den\u00e9e Benton), which is good because she is a sensible young woman with her eye on the prize: getting her stories published! She gets awfully close this week, but decides not to allow The Christian Science Monitor (or whatever) to publish her stories anonymously and edit out any reference to her characters being Black.<\/p>\n<p>Meanwhile, we finally meet her father, Arthur (John Douglas Thompson). She\u2019s been avoiding him in this way that made me suspect something much darker in their past. But actually, he seems ok! Just stern and concerned. The extent of their familial rift seems to be that he\u2019s less than supportive of her ambition and just wants her to come home and work for him. They seem to be on their way to mending their relationship, and the best part of that is maybe we\u2019ll get to see more of Audra McDonald!<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_49617\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-49617\" style=\"width: 1024px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-large wp-image-49617\" src=\"https:\/\/graziamagazine.com\/us\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/15\/2022\/02\/taylor-richardson-ben-ahlers-e1644340320115.jpg?w=1024\" alt=\"Taylor Richardson and Ben Ahlers in &lt;i&gt;The Gilded Age&lt;\/i&gt;\" width=\"1024\" height=\"682\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-49617\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Taylor Richardson and Ben Ahlers in <i>The Gilded Age<\/i> (Photo: Alison Cohen Rosa\/HBO)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p><strong>Young Footman and Kitchen Maiden<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I feel a little terrible for not knowing the names of these two employees of the van Rhijn household, but only a little. I mean, there are so damn many characters\u2014I have basically no idea who anyone except George is in the railroad deal debacle. And Sir Fellowes himself only seems marginally interested in this show\u2019s downstairs cast, to the point where he\u2019s essentially recycling the Daisy and any-current-footman plotlines from <em>Downton Abbey<\/em>. To wit: Young Footmaster has eyes for Maid Kitchengirl, but she\u2019s like, \u201cI dunno, guy\u2026\u201d But he manages to pressure her into going to the magic lantern show. But when he tries to get all cosy with her, she\u2019s like, \u201c<em>BACK OFF!<\/em>\u201d And he does, which is good.<\/p>\n<p>I mean, I think that\u2019s what\u2019s going on here? I was only semi-paying attention. But I guess I\u2019m <em>marginally<\/em> interested, which is probably the appropriate amount of interest for this!<\/p>\n<p><strong>Read more <em>Gilded Age<\/em> Relationship Recaps:<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/graziamagazine.com\/us\/articles\/gilded-age-who-are-we-shipping-american-downton\/\">\u2018The Gilded Age\u2019: Who Are We Shipping on the American \u2018Downton\u2019?<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/graziamagazine.com\/us\/articles\/the-gilded-age-episode-2-hbo\/\">\u2018The Gilded Age\u2019 Introduces Another Man for Marian!<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/graziamagazine.com\/us\/articles\/gilded-age-valentines-day-recap-american-downton\/\">\u2018The Gilded Age\u2019: A Very Gilded Valentine\u2019s Day<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n","protected":false},"author":29097,"featured_media":49618,"template":"","format":"standard","categories":[38,16,3925],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO Premium plugin v18.5 (Yoast SEO v20.4) - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>\u2018The Gilded Age\u2019 Relationship Recap: An Extremely Decent Proposal<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"Mr. Raikes is moving awfully fast in the latest episode of The Gilded Age! 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