{"id":12388,"date":"2021-02-02T22:17:15","date_gmt":"2021-02-02T11:17:15","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/graziamagazine.com\/?post_type=articles&#038;p=185201"},"modified":"2021-02-04T01:16:22","modified_gmt":"2021-02-04T01:16:22","slug":"alexandria-ocasio-cortez-sexual-assault-survivor-trauma","status":"publish","type":"articles","link":"https:\/\/graziamagazine.com\/us\/articles\/alexandria-ocasio-cortez-sexual-assault-survivor-trauma\/","title":{"rendered":"Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez Reveals She Is a Sexual Assault Survivor"},"content":{"rendered":"<figure id=\"attachment_12560\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-12560\" style=\"width: 1024px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-12560\" src=\"https:\/\/graziamagazine.com\/us\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/15\/2021\/02\/GettyImages-1155806904.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1024\" height=\"691\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-12560\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Credit: Alex Wroblewski\/Getty Images<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In an <a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/tv\/CKxlyx4g-Yb\/?utm_source=ig_embed\" target=\"_blank\">Instagram live<\/a> on Monday evening, Democratic congresswoman Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez went public for the first time about being a survivor of sexual assault. While opening up about how traumatizing last month\u2019s attack of the US capitol building was, AOC likened those who have tried to downplay how terrifying the situation was &#8211; telling her to \u201cmove on\u201d and get over it &#8211; to those who downplay both accusations from survivors of sexual assault and the ongoing work that comes with healing from any kind of trauma.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">While speaking about the attack on January 6th, when a group of violent Trump supporters stormed the building where AOC and other members of government were, the 31-year-old started getting visibly emotional. &#8220;The reason I&#8217;m getting emotional in this moment,\u201d she explained, \u201cis because the folks who tell us to move on, that it&#8217;s not a big deal, that we should forget what&#8217;s happened, or even telling us to apologize, these are the same tactics of abusers.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&#8220;I&#8217;m a survivor of sexual assault, and I haven&#8217;t told many people that in my life,&#8221; 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Fearing for her life, she set up an Instagram Live to capture what was going on. At the same time, she heard yelling and banging outside her door and a man saying, \u201cWhere is she? Where is she?\u201d <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cI thought I was going to die,\u201d AOC said of the moment. \u201cAnd I had a lot of thoughts. I was thinking if this is the plan for me, people will be able to take it from here.\u201d <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Fortunately, the man yelling turned out to be a police officer, who told her to leave the building but did not stay with her to safely escort her out. With rioters storming the building from all angles, she instead fled her office and sought refuge with Rep. Katie Porter, the pair hiding for hours.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Once the Capitol building was secured, Ocasio-Cortez said that she went to Rep. Ayanna Pressley&#8217;s office, where she and their staffers stayed until around 4am. While there, <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">AOC says that Pressley told her that what she had experienced earlier that day was traumatizing and she needs to take care of herself. 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