{"id":22174,"date":"2022-05-10T10:53:22","date_gmt":"2022-05-10T06:53:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/graziamagazine.com\/me\/?post_type=articles&#038;p=22174"},"modified":"2022-05-17T09:25:21","modified_gmt":"2022-05-17T05:25:21","slug":"grazia-the-journey-editors-letter-middle","status":"publish","type":"articles","link":"https:\/\/graziamagazine.com\/me\/articles\/grazia-the-journey-editors-letter-middle\/","title":{"rendered":"Editor&#8217;s Letter: The Polemic Against Privilege"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"mceTemp\"><\/div>\n<figure id=\"attachment_22500\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-22500\" style=\"width: 1024px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-22500 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/graziamagazine.com\/me\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/16\/2022\/04\/GME_003_DigitalCOVER_2.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1024\" height=\"1336\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-22500\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Sleeveless Dress with Black and Grey Contrast Stitching, <strong>HERM\u00c8S <\/strong>CREATIVE DIRECTION <strong>DAN\u00c9 STOJANOVIC<\/strong> PHOTOGRAPHY <strong>FRANCESCO SCOTTI<\/strong> FASHION DIRECTION <strong>ANNA CASTAN<\/strong> HAIR &amp; MAKE UP <strong>MANUEL LOSADA <\/strong>PRODUCER <strong>NATASCHA HAWKE<\/strong> MODEL <strong>ANUGRAHA NATARAJAN \/ FEAT.ARTISTS<\/strong> LOCATION <strong>RAFFLES UDAIPUR, INDIA<\/strong><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>I thought a lot about what to write for this issue of GRAZIA. I thought about what a \u2018journey\u2019 means to me, and how I could sum up mine in a word. Then I thought of other people\u2019s journeys, and how they look so different to mine. I asked myself, what exactly determines the journey life takes you on? Why does mine have its specific beginning, middle and inevitable end, whilst the chapters of someone else\u2019s take them down an entirely different path? If I were to sum up the answer, it would ultimately be: privilege.<\/p>\n<p>Yes, I\u2019ve worked hard to stay on the path I am currently on. But there\u2019s also no denying that my circumstances have helped me navigate this route to get to where I am, and still keep going.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cGet yourself out there and work. It seems like nobody wants to work these days,\u201d was Kim Kardashian\u2019s advice for women in business, and the internet wasn\u2019t too happy with it (rightfully so). What makes the reality TV star\u2019s advice so unjustifiable is her privilege in comparison to others. The way I see it, is that there are ranks of privilege, and as fortunate as I may be, my circumstances are incomparable to those of a woman who had a celebrity lawyer as a father, Olympic medallist as a stepfather and Paris Hilton as a best friend. There are several things that determine your circumstances, and ultimately, your advantages. Where you were born is a major factor. Just as who your parents are \u2013 if you even have those figures in your life to begin with \u2013 contributes too.<\/p>\n<p>I couldn\u2019t help but compare my own journey \u2013 and privilege \u2013 to that of a young girl who was born in a war zone, let\u2019s say. According to Maslow\u2019s hierarchy of needs, the most basic essentials a person must have, before they even consider any emotional requirements, is food, water, shelter and oxygen. How about those who have none, or barely any of these? Is it their fault that they can\u2019t just \u201cget themselves out there and work\u201d?<\/p>\n<div style=\"width: 3840px;\" class=\"wp-video\"><video class=\"wp-video-shortcode\" id=\"video-22174-1\" width=\"3840\" height=\"2160\" preload=\"metadata\" controls=\"controls\"><source type=\"video\/mp4\" src=\"https:\/\/graziamagazine.com\/me\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/16\/2022\/05\/GRAZIA-intl-Raffles-Udaipur-4K.mp4?_=1\" \/><\/video><\/div>\n<p>I often think of my parents when musing over this topic. \u201cI worked so hard so that my children won\u2019t have to one day,\u201d is what my father would always say to me. He did not come from a place of privilege, given that he was born in Palestine, a country where shelter wasn\u2019t guaranteed. And yet, he worked tirelessly so that I wouldn\u2019t need to strive as much as he did. My father\u2019s approach, which I\u2019m sure many other parents share, has secured me a position that he never had. And I cannot deny that I too share his ideology. Whilst no parent wants to raise spoiled children, a major reason that I work as hard as I do is so that my future kids won\u2019t have to. And yet I wonder, does this mean that after generations of following my father\u2019s ideology, that one day my great-great-great grandchildren will reach a status so high that they won\u2019t even need to work at all? Would they eventually get to a point where their standing is ranked as high as a Kardashian\u2019s?<\/p>\n<p>I have a lot of respect for those who aren\u2019t born privileged, and yet still have the perseverance to push through and try to change the route of their own journey. I always wonder what it is that keeps them going. Is it patience? Hope? Faith? In Islam, there is a word that symbolises one\u2019s trust and reliance in a higher plan: <em>tawakkul<\/em>. When life does not go your way, when you work tirelessly and yet see no fruition to any of your dreams, you need to have an unimaginable <em>tawakkul<\/em> \u2013 or belief \u2013 in a higher power.<\/p>\n<p>When I was younger, my mother used to tell me that our faith ensures that each and every person\u2019s journey is predetermined from the moment they are born. I wondered if that meant that we had no free will. If every step was already mapped and planned out, including certain mistakes that I\u2019d make throughout the course of my life, how could I be held accountable for these? Why would I be put through these struggles? She then explained that whilst every little instance of my life is pre-written, from me typing out this very letter to what time I go to sleep every single night, it is ultimately me who makes every decision. And yet, whilst we may have free will, my free will allows me to make choices that are very different to another\u2019s, and that again, all comes down to privilege.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve always believed that you cannot compare people\u2019s resilience to hardship, just as you cannot compare people\u2019s ability to withstand physical pain. But there must be a line where we stop ourselves from comparing the Kardashians of the world to the Malalas of the world.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-22476\" src=\"https:\/\/graziamagazine.com\/me\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/16\/2022\/04\/Screenshot-2022-05-09-at-12.15.25-pm.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"136\" height=\"122\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>LEEN AL SAADI<\/strong><br \/>\n@LEENALSAADI<br \/>\nLEEN.ALSAADI@ITP.COM<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><em>This Editor&#8217;s Letter is published in the third edition of GRAZIA Middle East. Click <a href=\"https:\/\/graziamagazine.com\/me\/daily-edit\/the-journey\/\"><strong>here<\/strong><\/a> to discover more from THE JOURNEY.\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":30736,"featured_media":22482,"template":"","format":"standard","categories":[260,35,3209,4254],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO Premium plugin v18.5 (Yoast SEO v20.4) - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>GRAZIA THE JOURNEY Editor&#039;s Letter: The Polemic Against Privilege<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"GRAZIA&#039;s Digital Editor shares her take on what &#039;the journey&#039; means to her, focusing on the middle, for GRAZIA: THE JOURNEY.\" \/>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/graziamagazine.com\/me\/articles\/grazia-the-journey-editors-letter-middle\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"en_US\" 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