{"id":17969,"date":"2022-01-31T10:11:24","date_gmt":"2022-01-30T23:11:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/graziamagazine.com\/?post_type=articles&p=208869"},"modified":"2022-01-31T17:55:16","modified_gmt":"2022-01-31T06:55:16","slug":"bella-hadid-abusive-relationships","status":"publish","type":"articles","link":"https:\/\/graziamagazine.com\/me\/articles\/bella-hadid-abusive-relationships\/","title":{"rendered":"Bella Hadid Says She Would Keep Returning To \u201cAbusive\u201d Relationships"},"content":{"rendered":"
\"\"
Credit: Arnold Jerocki\/Getty Images for Dior<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

Bella Hadid<\/a> appeared on the Victoria’s Secret VS Voices\u00a0<\/em>podcast<\/a> this week to discuss a string of “abusive” relationships she has experienced in both her professional and private life. The supermodel told host Amanda de Cadenet that she learnt toxic behaviours like “people pleasing” as a result.<\/p>\n

\u201cI constantly went back to men \u2013 and also, women \u2013 that had abused me and that\u2019s where the people pleasing came in,\u201d the 25-year-old revealed to the newly-launched outlet. \u201cI started not having boundaries, not only sexually, physically, emotionally, but then it went into my work space. I began to be a people-pleaser with my job.\u201d<\/p>\n

Hadid has been romantically linked to The Weeknd, Drake and NFL star Odell Beckham Jr. in the past. Without naming names, she added how growing up she struggled to stand up for herself both in romantic settings as well as around male family. The Kin. founder is currently dating 33-year-old art director, Marc Kalman<\/a>.<\/p>\n

\"The
NEW YORK, NY – MAY 02: The Weeknd and Bella Hadid attends “Manus x Machina: Fashion In An Age Of Technology” Costume Institute Gala at Metropolitan Museum of Art on May 2, 2016 in New York City. (Photo by Kevin Mazur\/WireImage)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

\u201cI always felt like my voice was never heard growing up. I grew up around men \u2013 whether that was in relationships or family or whatever that was \u2013 where I was constantly told that my voice was less important than their voice,\u201d Hadid said.<\/p>\n

\u201cThen moving into relationships growing up, and not having the boundaries of being able to stick up for myself and have my voice being heard, affected me in my adult relationships very intensely,\u201d she continued. \u201cMy nervous system would crash. It was fight or flight.\u201d<\/p>\n

Hadid garnered plenty of controversy when she returned as a Victoria’s Secret ambassador in late 2021 after being one of many models who accused the lingerie giant of bullying<\/a> following the cancellation of the annual runway show back in 2019. According to the star, the decision was made to gain back some of her lost confidence.<\/p>\n

\n
<\/p>\n
\n
<\/div>\n
\n
<\/div>\n
<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n
<\/div>\n
<\/path><\/g><\/g><\/g><\/svg><\/div>\n
\n
View this post on Instagram<\/div>\n<\/div>\n
<\/div>\n
\n
\n
<\/div>\n
<\/div>\n
<\/div>\n<\/div>\n
\n
<\/div>\n
<\/div>\n<\/div>\n
\n
<\/div>\n
<\/div>\n
<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n
\n
<\/div>\n
<\/div>\n<\/div>\n

<\/a><\/p>\n

A post shared by Bella \ud83e\udd8b (@bellahadid)<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/blockquote>\n